"Recently I overheard a
father and daughter in their
last moments together.
They had
announced her departure and standing near the
security gate, they
hugged and he said, "I love you. I wish you enough."
She in
turn said, "Daddy, our life together has been more than enough.
Your
love is all I ever needed. I wish you enough, too,
Daddy."
They kissed and she left. He walked over toward the
window where I was
seated. Standing there I could see he wanted
and needed to cry. I tried
not to intrude on his privacy, but he
welcomed me in by asking,
"Did you ever say goodbye to
someone knowing it would be forever?"
"Yes, I have," I
replied. Saying that brought back memories I had of
expressing my
love and appreciation for all that my Dad had done for
me.
Recognizing that his days were limited, I took the time to
tell him face
to face how much he meant to me.
So I knew
what this man was experiencing.
"Forgive me for asking, but
why is this a forever goodbye?" I asked.
"I am old and she
lives much too far away. I have challenges ahead, and
the reality
is, the next trip back will be for my funeral," he
said.
"When you were saying goodbye I heard you say, "I wish
you enough."
May I ask what that means?"
He began to
smile. "That's a wish that has been handed down from
other
generations. My parents used to say it to everyone." He
paused for a
moment and looking up as if trying to remember it in
detail, he smiled
even more. "When we said 'I wish you enough,'
we were wanting the other
person to have a life filled with just enough
good things to sustain
them," he continued. And then turning
toward me he shared the following
as if he were reciting it from
memory:
"I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright.
I wish you enough
rain to appreciate the sun more. I wish you
enough happiness to keep
your spirit alive. I wish you enough
pain so that the smallest joys in life
appear much bigger. I wish
you enough gain to satisfy your wanting. I
wish you enough loss to
appreciate all that you possess.
I wish enough
"Hello's"
to get you through the final "Goodbye."
SO ... MY FRIEND ...
I wish you enough
(c) 2001 Bob Perks
http://www.IWishYouEnough.com

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